The Conclusion of The Dharma of Tennis - Namaste

Namaste

If you have watched more than a few tennis matches, you know that protocol for completion of a match is: acknowledge your partner with a handshake, hug or high-five; walk to the net and do the same with your opponents – win or lose. You’ve likely seen this done graciously … or not so much. You may also have seen a player refuse to acknowledge his/her opponent at all – generating disapproval from onlookers – and I’m sure, future embarrassment to the player who chose, in a moment of weakness, to forego the usual custom. Perhaps, even you have succumbed to this unfortunate moment of ingratitude.

“Yoga” derives from the word “yoke” and means “union” – as in the union of ox with cart. As such, in yoga, we complete each session with hands held in prayer position at our chests, a humble bow towards each other, and a spoken “Namaste.”  Namaste, simply worded, means “I honor you as I honor myself” or “we are connected” – as in the ox with the cart. For me, the handshake at the end of the match signifies the end of competition and the continuance of being one with each other and the world around us – a world in which we are lucky enough to be able to have some competitive fun – at our leisure. A “Namaste” at the end of a yoga session or a handshake at the end of a tennis match is a small way – a butterfly flapping its wings – for you and I to make the world a better place in which to live. We’ve recreated together. Win or lose, we’ve exercised, interacted, absorbed vitamin D from the sunshine and – at least for a couple hours – diffused the cares of the world around us. I personally love that moment of recognition and gratitude. Perhaps it would be invigorating to recall this sentiment between points, games and sets as well. At the very least, next time you go to the net to either give or receive congratulations for a match well played, remember how fortunate you are to be here, now.

Great match… and Namaste, dear reader! Many thanks for sticking with The Dharma of Tennis blog.

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Entrain - Part II - it's not always easy...

In the previous post, I wrote about achieving synchrony with your partner. But, as in life, this practice isn't always easy, instantaneous or perfect... Entrain Part II continues below.

Now, I'm not naïve; neither you nor I always “click” with all of our partners. Especially in team play, we sometimes must play with someone new or someone whose game or temperament doesn’t complement our own. Moreover, some partners may not be willing or able to consciously “synchronize” with us.  Maybe s/he is having a bad day or worse still, has had a bad life. Nonetheless, I  try - at least - to entrain my  movement with him or her, in hopes that teamwork will result - perhaps "by osmosis." This, of course, is unless there's an aura of negativity surrounding them.  And we all know this happens on occasion...

If this is the case, my goal is to go within myself, entrain with my inner winner and maintain focus (principle I) and a positive attitude (principle III). I continue to acknowledge him/her on good play or effort (principle IV) – even if the point is lost. Then, over the course of a match, entrainment may - and often does - occur(!) whether my partner and I realize it or not. Spontaneously, we're "in synch." It may be too late but, win or lose, you've left the door open to try, try again. And next time, chances are you'll begin the match on higher ground as a team (principle VI - still to come).  Then - and only then - can a fledgling team win over a more experienced one.

So ... see what you can do in concert with your partner.  Breathe with her; walk side by side with him; continue the connection not only during play, but also between points, games and sets - whenever possible. Never change sides on opposite sides of the court - it separates your energy! Then, win or lose, the recognition of one’s earthly – or cosmic – connection  portends a companionable time.

And, isn’t that what the game is all about?

Stay tuned for "Namaste" - Principle VI. It will be my final post from the Dharma of Tennis. So here is where I make my pitch.

You and your team mates - or just three additional friends - can take the twelve-hour Dharma of Tennis workshop at Yonahlossee - or on your home court. Reading about the D. of T. is one thing but actually practicing it is a whole 'nother ball game. Experiential, repetitive and focused practice is essential to the absorption of these skills.

So call me to explore your options! 828-963-1181. And, Namaste...

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Entrain with your Partner by Moving as One

Synchrony 

I became fascinated with a doubles tennis match at the Family Circle Cup in Charleston, SC last year. I was studying the smallest player of the foursome because I’m small and I wanted to discern how she competed against the larger, stronger players. (Long arms, long legs and broad shoulders tend to intimidate me). What were her tricks? How did she respond to players with bigger serves, more power and longer wingspan? I soon realized that I couldn’t observe her as a single entity – no way! For, she and her partner were exquisitely entrained – like birds in flight responding to wind currents in synchronized swoops, ascents and descents. Unlike their opponents who might as well have been playing singles, she and her partner moved around the court surface as one – not only during play – which is what we learn in coaching: to move as though attached with a string. Rather, this wise twosome practiced that string-theory – not only during play but within every single aspect of the match. Between points and games, they walked toward one another, touched hands or racquets and communicated quietly and calmly. During changeovers, they walked in-step toward the net, hydrated together and walked in-step to the other side of the court – only separating when they assumed their doubles positions. Imagine identical twins at some times or mirror twins at others. It was like watching synchronized swimmers – or, more succinctly, yogis as they stretch, contract and breathe together throughout their routine – sometimes as though in a dream.

Stay with these thoughts until my next post where I'll provide examples of how a yoga practice can help you to entrain with your partner.

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"Right Practice" on Vacation

Oh My. I was instructed that a really effective blogger blogs 2 – 3 times a week – without fail – in order to keep her readers’ attention. Well, I failed last month! Kevin and I traveled to Patagonia, AZ for our annual winter trek and well, I got distracted; distracted by: the beauty of the landscape, the quirky candor of the people, the flora & fauna,  the warmth of the desert sun, the multitude of hiking trails, the translucent sunsets and – sometimes – the abundance of tequila at every table. With only 18 miles separating Patagonia from Nogales, Mexico, going with the flow is simply a part of the culture. And of course, I approve! I’ve always subscribed to the adage, “when in Rome…”; it’s healthy – don’t you agree?

How does all this relate to the Dharma of Tennis? You may ask. Well, it does in an abstract sort of way. Dharma means “right practice.” While navigating this new environment, I found myself impatient with the act of blogging and thus began hurrying through the process.  This doesn’t translate to “right practice” in my book; I want my blog to be consistently thoughtful. I want to put my heart and soul into it and I wasn’t doing so.  So I simply set the blog aside for the remainder of the month – content with the knowledge that when we returned home, I’d return to my usual attentiveness.  And, rested and renewed, I have. So… stay tuned for principles 5 and 6 –“Entrain” and “Namaste” – beginning again in the next couple of days. I look forward to connecting again and I know you’ll enjoy these upcoming Dharma of Tennis tenets.

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Namaste, dear readers.