Here’s an example of how I use mantras in tennis. During tournaments, my
game will often become tentative - a response fueled by fear of losing. Subsequently, instead of playing from a place of strength
my shots may become defensive and weak. I can often “scrap” my way through it – but
it isn’t pretty, fluid or fun. So...
If I know I have a tough match coming up and my
confidence is faltering, my mantra is,
“I am calm and courageous.”
I repeat this
phrase over and over in mental preparation for the competition and then, during
match-play – until I really am calm and courageous; then I
can go with the flow and play my normal (calm and courageous)game. You see, it is believed that the
brain doesn’t register negatives, such as - "I'm not going to play tentatively." The brain hears "I'm going to play tentatively." Eek. That’s why I cringe when I hear my
partner say something like, “I’m not going to double-fault again.” Or “we’re
not going to lose this match.” The brain doesn’t hear the “not.” Rather, it hears “I’m
going to double-fault again” or “we’re going to lose this match.” Ouch.
So figure out how you want to play; instruct yourself to do so in first person, present tense and remember... Remain in the positive or your brain may, indeed,
cause you to double-fault.
Stay tuned for more examples of mantra-use in tennis in my next post. In the meantime, enjoy.
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